FAQs
If you have a question that isn't answered below or elsewhere on this website, please use the form on the Contact Us page and we'll get back to you.
What do I wear? Do I have to get naked?
Firstly you NEVER have to get naked, but you can if you want! In the bar and social areas or the outside smoking area you can wear what you came in. (Most people wear what they'd wear for a night out in town).
If you are going to the upstairs playrooms, to either play or watch you do need to dress down. This can be wearing a towel, underwear, naked if you want. You could always bring a gown or robe if you feel more comfortable. We don't allow street clothes. This because people find it off putting if playing and others are fully clothed.
Do I have to swing to come to DECADANCE?
Again No. Some people just like the adult atmosphere and conversation. With mobile phones not being allowed there is always chat and banter. Others come to relax in the jacuzzi or hot tub. You might be curious about swinging and just want to see what goes on your first visit.
Do I need to be a member?
No! Some clubs charge extortionate membership fees. We don't, and our entry charges are less than what some other clubs charge their paid members!
Is Sex guaranteed?
Short answer is NO! The difference between a Decadance and a regular bar is that more possibilities are there. They attract like minded people. You can be introduced to other people, or if you like the look of someone go and say hello. The club will make every effort to include everyone in conversation and make introductions. It's up to you to take it from there. Most ladies in the club want you to be polite, courteous and respectful. If you are rude you will likely be ignored.
Unfortunately some people confuse swingers clubs with brothels! The only similarity is that sex happens in both. There is no guarantee of sex in Decadance. Please don't come with that expectation or you may be disappointed.
Do I need ID?
No, We don't need your details. However we only allow over 18s to enter so please be prepared to show valid ID if you look under 25.
We have looked carefully into the pros and cons of recording IDs and have decided against it being a requirement for entry. We are also be aware that other businesses have been subject to data breaches when collecting personal details.
Is DECADANCE an expensive night out?
Our standard entry prices are cheaper than most other clubs. Single Ladies always get free admission. We currently have free admission for couples on Monday afternoons and Wednesday evenings (usually £15). Single Gents currently only £20 Mondays and Wednesdaysor £15 if you come early (usually £25).
Our bar prices are comparable with local pubs and certainly much cheaper than Manchester city centre. Examples include beers £3.50, Spirits from £2.50.
Towel use, locker use and condoms are free. (Many other clubs charge for these).
Can I just come in for a few minutes to see what the clubs like?
If you come into the club (even for a few minutes) you need to pay the appropriate entry fee. There is full information of what facilities we have on this website, I cluding plenty of photos.
Single females are always free. Couples currently get free entry on Mondays and Wednesdays.
How busy is the club on any given night?
We don't know!!
Usually Fridays and Saturdays tend to be busier than Mondays and Wednesdays. That said it can be totally unpredictable and Mondays and Wednesdays can sometimes be very busy.
Again there's no guarantee on a very busy night someone may be interested in playing with you. Alternatively you could come on a very quiet night and the right person be in and have a great time. On a quiet night it may also be easier to chat and make a connection with someone.
How busy the club is can change minute by minute. For that reason and to protect identities we never give details of who is in the club or how many people are in the club.
I'm a single lady, will I feel comfortable?
Absolutely, you can come into the club and have a purely social experience in the bar. You may feel later in the night you want to take things further with one or more others, alternatively you may just want to chill. There have been ladies who have come into the club and wanted as much much fun as they could get on their first visit. The choice is yours! If you're still unsure we can answer any of your questions confidentially on the contact us page or you can have a chat with Mandy either by popping in, leaving your number or phoning the club during opening hours.
Are any extras such as happy ending massages or sexual services available for a price?
Absolutely not! Please do not confuse genuine swingers clubs with massage parlours or other sexual services.
The club is about social interaction,what happens after that (if anything) is between consenting adults. All customers must be respected at all times. If anyone asks for money they will be barred from the club.
Will it show on my bank statement that I've been to a swingers club if I pay by card?
Transactions taken in the club for entry or at the bar will show as 'Dec's Bar' on your statement.
Online tickets will show as 'fienta.com' on your statement.
Do you have condoms?
Yes and they are free of charge. We encourage their use.
Is everybody welcome?
Yes, everybody's welcome. However please don't turn up influence of drink or drugs. Our customers come from all walks of life, ages, sexualities, ethnicities and body types. Some are experienced swingers, some are new, some have more extreme kinks, some are very vanilla.
Most of our customers are down to earth, polite, respectful, courteous and like to have a laugh.
We're a couple, but don't know if it's for us?
Why not come down and have a purely social night? alternatively you could just play together with no involvement from others. The choice is yours and your never under any pressure to do anything. You may wish to bring friends to support you, they can come for a purely social experience if they've no interest in swinging.
How old are your other customers?
Like your local pub, ages range from 18 to 80+.
I'm very body conscious, I'm worried about coming.
We get all body types in the club. How much of your body you show is up to you. You will likely find people in the club that appreciate your body type that you wouldn't find in other places. You will likely find the club a very positive place and it hopefully you will learn to love your body.
What payment methods do you take in the club?
We take cash or card, including contactless.
Do you encourage safe sex?
Yes, and we provide free condoms, however we don't control what goes on between consenting adults.
Please discuss condom use with anyone you play with.
Be aware that removing a condom without the person you are having sex with being aware, is rape.
Consider having a trusted wingman/woman with you when playing.
Do you have CCTV?
Yes, it is a condition of our licence that we have CCTV on the bar and entrance. We also record the on street parking area across the road. We do not have CCTV in the playrooms, toilets, showers or changing areas.
For exhibitionists who like to put on a show the camera in the viewing playroom is linked to a TV downstairs. This is not linked to the CCTV system and shows live pictures only, it is not recorded.
All cameras are visible, there are no hidden cameras.
Access to CCTV images is strictly controlled and we comply with GDPR.
Do the club owners 'play'?
No neither Mandy or Aaron do. Please do not come with any misconceptions.
Is the club on FAB Swingers?
Yes, we have a club profile DECADANCE_CLUB_ROCHDALE. There are pictures of events that we can't show on this website.
This is a profile for club business only. The club owner does not swing or meet anyone outside the club. Please do not send inappropriate messages or pictures of body parts.
Can you verify me on FAB Swingers?
Yes, but we would only ever give genuine verifications, and we need to have met you to do that. Come and spend a night/afternoon in the club and we will gladly verify you.
Why are there not many people in the photos on this site?
Photos are taken only with the full permission those included (even when the person is not identify able in the photo). For this reason other people are out of shot or photos have been taken whilst the club is closed.
I consider myself to be a 'greedy girl' and want the attention of lots of people in one night, is this possible at DECADANCE?
We are normally a well mixed club and have a good male to female ratio. We occasionally organise greedy girl nights where we can usually up the ratio of men in the club. If you are a lady looking to be part in this please use the form on the contact us page and we can get back to you.
I/we have an fantasy/fetish that I/we wish to act out, can DECADANCE accommodate this?
Just message us from the contact us page and we'll let you know. We've seen most things over the years and are pretty unshockable!
Obviously it has to be legal, and only involve consenting people over the age of 18.
Can I bring my own drinks?
No, we have a well stocked, fully licensed bar with reasonable prices and only drinks bought from the bar can be consumed in the club. Bar prices are available here.
If you have any suggestions on drinks you'd like stocked please speak to Mandy.